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Happynomics: Ready Travel

Teori the Secret terbukti dengan pengalaman pagi ini. Iseng-iseng saya mencari informasi mengenai usaha travel perorangan, akhirnya saya menemukan jawabannya pagi ini. Yes, saya pun siap menerima reservasi tiket sebagai usaha sampingan. Tentang bagaimana saya memanfaatkan waktu sudah cukup banyak saya belajar. Sekarang saya lebih hati-hati dalam memanfaatkan waktu sendiri dan orang lain. Saya jadi orang yang tidak mudah berjanji. Wish me luck!

Major-Minor Scale in Indonesia

Dear Friends, how are you? I want to share something regards to my opinion about our closest surrounding. I am inspired after I watched Youtube recording of Ligwina Hananto's statement about triple majority and her political view which is not really political base on her owned opinion. :) I studied in Catholic school for many years and it makes me could not realize at the beginning that I am a part of minority society. I 'awake' when in my childhood, my neighbor start asking about my religion and when I come to her birthday party and made the sign of the cross. Her face show disliking. Pity of me, I am the only one there who did it. When I grew up becoming adult, I believe 100% that the major-minor scale is not really matter when you indeed respect other as other human.  Actually, the majority and minority scale in each district in Indonesia is different one to another. In Java the major society is Javanese and Moeslem, in Ambon  is Ambonese and Christian, in Bali is ...

Sensitivity

Rediningrum, Your Sensitivity is your Most Dominant Character Trait! You have a big heart with a lot of love to go around. Not only that, but you are extra aware of other people's feelings and very conscious as to how their emotions are affected by yours and other's behavior. The level of empathy you possess is greatly appreciated and picked up on by your friends and family, which is why you're such great company to have around."

We are Just a Number? Create a Number!

Dear Friends, How are you? Hoping so much that you are well. When I write this I am feeling sad. Because one of my beloved friend block me in social media. But it is okay. I always believe that the real friendship can only happen in real life not the virtual one. :) However, please kindly review my previous post of Happynomics and Masa Depan Yang Banyak Pilihan posts. This article, this time is about our turbulence as employee and to ease weary we must have a lot of back-up plan, which now every young man try hard to start his own business to get economics independence. I am sad of separation, one of my close friend must accept working termination per one day notice. So harmful. It is violent. But as I write before as employee we are just a number. When we are working as payee, we are calculated as cost too. It is realistic, too. Hmmmpphhh... I walk my talk with starting my own business per inch. Even though other know me as job traveler, this time I want to work as profess...

The Real War: Separatism in Any Aspect of Life

Dear Friends, I've just going back home from Angkringan, road-side food stall which are frequented visit by lower class people in Indonesia. The reason for me to come quite often there is the cheap rate of Rp 4000 [US$ 0.48] for a small, fist-sized portion of rice along with toppings and the cozy environment to be easy to talk one to another visitor even one to another is stranger :) There is no objection from each of us if suddenly we participate into another visitor conversation. Guess what happen next? We become friends.  It is hard to find this opportunity in other eatery place, I believe, which is most visited by high class, busy person with high tight schedule and no spontaneous talk can come up. Do you know how I start the conversation with stranger? By seeing similarity with others. At the time I see a young woman take tofu more than once, I said,"I like tofu, too." We start friendship, get connected to another because of similarity. But what happen to o...

Cinderella Complex 2

Hai pembaca, Dengan mereview apa yang saya tulis sebelumnya tahun 2008 tentang Cinderella Complex , nyatanya ada persoalan yang belum putus pada diri seorang wanita, the Prime Minister , yang kini ada dalam pernikahan, yang kembali menghadapi konflik internal dalam dirinya soal kemandirian. Apa alasan reflektif dan visioner dari seorang wanita yang memutuskan untuk menikah? Alasan rata-rata (yang tidak lebih penting dari tujuan) wanita ingin menikah adalah: Ring 1  'Karena sudah saling mencintai dan punya komitmen untuk hidup bersama.' Secara sederhana berarti menikah adalah satu cara yang dipilih untuk berbagi hidup dengan seorang yang kita pilih sebagai ring 1, lingkaran relasi yang paling privat. Kalau di phonebook teman, dia sudah tandai kekasihnya sebagai 01 atau artinya Ring 1. :) Memberi Diri Memberi diri  tanpa kehilangan diri itu bagaimana sih? Sayangnya berdasarkan pengalaman pribadi, saya bukanlah contoh yang bagus. Sehingga saya kuatir tidak punya kapa...

The Limit # Empowerment - Empowerless

There is limit Between empowerment and empowerless It is humbility and arrogancy The empowered person can be suddenly empowerless When the user of his service doesn't need him again But an empowerless person can be empowered When he tries hard to do anything independently Inspired by my Mom and Dad, love you, both!